hi, me and bf dated for about almost a year. Then one day i had gotten really pissed of and said a whole bunch of bs to him. This wasnt my first time and he has forgiven me many times before. So about a month ago he said he couldnt take it anymore n decided to break up with me. For days i begged him n cried, but all he said was that he jus wanted to be friends.
Now, its been a month and 3 weeks and we stilll talk sometimes talk like we used to. i still love him and he said he still loves me. Then recently, he stop telling me dat he loved me. He wasnt showing me that he cared or anything, yet he tells my friends that he stilll loves me.im reallyy confused, cause he doesnt tell me, he tellls my friends, and when hes around hes acts like he dont care. please help me, i need some advice
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--- Friday, July 30, 2004 - I know how u feel
Answer by: silentlyclumsy03
I had almost the exact thing happen to me. Well accuatly, the exact thing. Moving on, the real question is: Do you still love him? If you do, hang on to your friendship, later it might grow back to a relationship again IF you want it THAT bad. If you don't really love him, and I mean REALLY love him ("I would die to be with you no matter what" love) then you need to just let it go. Try your best to forget it, and move on. Thats what I wish I had done. If you want to know what happend, I talked to him everyday, for about 30 minutes. NO "I love you" nothing like that, just "how is your day today" and "can u look up what my dream meant" Thats it! It has been like this for 3 months, and still is going on. I am an idiot for not being able to let go of the IDEA of him and the feeling of myself feeling loved. Good luck and all the best!
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