I met what is now my ex boyfriend over two years ago. We had been together for 6 months and then another 6 months on and off. I was completely obsessed with him. I can remember exact dates to everything and absoutely we ever did. He was pretty much my first everything and he meant the world to me-but i don't know why-he lied to me and did horrible things behind my back but we constantly would end up back together! As of now I have a boyfriend that I have been with for 9 months. I still have heavy feelings for my ex. I hate to admidt it but me and the ex have done some things that were unfaithful. I was just wondering why, when i have a great boyfriend, why do i still have feelings for the bad boy ex boyfriend? I would do anything to now like him anymore...he isn't worth my time and I want to forget him...but i still have all the memories in the back of my mind. Hope you have something good to tell me!!
Sincerely, Sarah
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--- Wednesday, July 28, 2004 - Why can't I get over him?
Answer by: Destiny21
He is your first. It is hard getting over your ex. You say you are with a boy now, but you still have feelings for your ex, it's naturally. The best thing to do is not to try to tame your ex's images into someone though. The way I got over my ex was I tore up everything, letter, picture, gifts. That's the only way I knew I wouldn't shed anymore tears just thinking about memories. A 's heart is nothing to play with, and it seems to me he played with your heart, but yet you still loved him, that is normal, it happens to alot of females. Just try to focus on something else, and if it mean you have to cry and mourn, sometimes it's the best thing to do to get it out of your system. At least you are dating someone now, so let him occupy your mind.
--- Wednesday, July 28, 2004 -
Answer by: gurlie_16
he is your 1st LOVE isn't he girl Iahet to tell you but 1st LOVES never go away.Just realize what he did 2 u and remember y you'll brokeup ok!Moveon!I know how that is trust me if he u your 1st LOVE theire's nothing u can do about it cause 1st LOVES never ever go away!well if you wanna forget about him try throwing things away he gave you and thign that remind you or him!!st LOVES like i said stay in the heart always!BYE!
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