Last year i had a class with a boy named Cj. He isn't exactly on the top of the popularity list, but i don't really care about that. Its just that Cj just up and had a crush on me one day and sent his friends to tell me. I never spoke a word to him in person until the very end of the year and that was when he asked me to sign his yearbook. It's very frustrating because i dont' think i'm ever going to like him, and he doesn't seem to be giving up on me. I don't want to hurt him because he seems to be nice but i really don't want to encorage him because i don't have any intrest in him.
I've already tried to just be friends but he doesn't understand, and he keeps trying to ask me out, even when i had a boyfriend. He isn't a pervert, even though reading through this thats what he seems like. I think that no one has ever even let him slip his foot into the doorway and when i left mine open a crack he thinks maybe if he persits long enough i'll let him in. I am so confused and troubled because i hate hurting people and it really tears at my heart just to think of hurting him. Why do i have to be so nice? Please help me! i REALLY NEED THE ADVICE!!!
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--- Monday, August 30, 2004 - Well...........
Answer by: confuzed_gurl
listen i know u dont like hurting ppl cause u said u didn't, he seems like the guy who doesn't give up on a girl that he likes, u dont want to give him hope that there is a chance so be nice and say i just wanna be friends nothing more and maybe later u will find that u actually do like him. Who knows? i dont. well goodlick with wateva descion u make.
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