ok, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months now and i still havent seen him all summer. well just the other night, by neighbor was all over me right, like kissin on me and hangin on me and shit. well, i didnt know what to do, and now i feel guilty cuz i didnt stop him or anything, but he also knows that i have a boyfriend. and i really like my neighbor and all (A LOT, OMG, HE'S SO HOTT <3 ) but i also LOVE my boyfriend....but i dont know what to do....help!
thanx
Responses to this article:
--- Sunday, August 22, 2004 - hell yea its wrong
Answer by: muzicgurl
yea its totaly wrong - not tryin to make you feel bad er anything but yea its wrong. you gotta tell your bf. if you still wanna be with him then you can pray he forgives you and maybe do something to show you love him - thats only if your truly srry tho and reallly arent gonna do it again - if you are then tell your bf what you did and that he deserves to find someone else to be more faithful to him and that you hope you can remain friends
--- Monday, August 16, 2004 - Not true love
Answer by: j7m4evr
If you let that guy all over you when you have a b/f,then you really don't love your b/f. Because a true g/f doesn't let a guy who knows that you have a b/f kiss her and stuff like that. I think that you should tell your b/f if you haven't already, and see what he thinks and if he dumps you then you know that you did do something wrong. And then if your neighbor still likes you then try going out with him. But don't let your b/f get hurt by having him find out what happened from someone else. Hope I help!
u can't sit and have this guy hang on u and kiss u and crap and say that u love ur bf, casue apperently u dont, if u didn't stop that guy then u dont love ur bf, u just dont, that is screwed up wat u did, but now the ?, is does ur bf know, or do u need to tell him. Best of luck, :)
--- Sunday, August 15, 2004 - The Reality Factor
Answer by: ReedPlex
Hi 392064193 (whatever that's supposed to be)
You can't be in love like you say you are if you're all over some other guy --- so much for integrity. In fact, if you really loved him you wouldn't be all in another guys face (especially if you have feelings for the other person too). I say this because we all know that being around someone we like alot could lead to something strong and this isn't what you would want if you have a boyfriend already. Other guys are going to be attractive no matter where you go but you need to be loyal. I'd say you have a long ways to go before going into a relationship with anyone --- especially a marriage. You seem to have a hard time dealing with commitment. If you did this with one "hott" guy, you are more than capable of doing it again with another. Get your priorities straight before you become the type of woman I really could care less for. You're becomming like my last girlfriend who did something similar. You don't want to know what it's like to be used. It really hurts no matter how you look at it. Put yourself in your boyfriends shoes for a moment. What if he was using you and you didn't have a clue about it. But every night he would come how with a smile on his face telling you how much he loves you and you'd believe him because you "think" he's being loyal to you. I'd say you should let this guy go before you hurt him. We know for a fact that you wouldn't have the guts to tell him the truth because you know he would die if you told him this out of the blue. You need some time alone to learn what it means to be loyal. I mean come on... If you can find a "GUY" who's loyal, you should take advantage of having him. What have you done so far? The opposite.
reedplex@excite.com
--- Saturday, August 14, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
You don't love your boyfriend if you're all over another guy! For real... let your boyfriend go so he can find a girl who will be honest and true to him.
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