Okay I have terrible family problems like my parents say harsh things like that they wish i wasnt alive and that right when i move out theyll be free and that im ugly and so and so....Couuld this be causing me to be so shy and timid around every guy...I dont know what to do because my family has made my ego about this big [-] I know most everything they say is not true but when I talk to someone all of a sudden I feel like Im not worth it and i get real shy and kinda sit there in a corner and think...What should I do?? Counselours dont work Ive tried...
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--- Tuesday, August 24, 2004 - What kinda trip??
Answer by: tearsofjoyyy04
Like what kind of trip though because im only 14
--- Tuesday, August 24, 2004 - be strong
Answer by: Willow
ok, I was going through this also awhile ago. I to had the same problem that you have, talking with guys and everything; you feel like noone would want to talk to you and your self conciouse. I felt this way and felt like i was eather to ugly or fat or something, that noone would come talk or was to good to talk to me. One of my friends atually told me that i needed to get the streangh back that i lost. I finaly relised that i did because i was better then that. so i just have in my head that i'm better then what i was; this guy that i liked and everything, i didn't know if he liked me or not ( he kept playing and flirting with me) so i took a trip to get my head together and i came back with a more hard core women and everything i did i had a hard attitude. that helped me so much, like with this guy, i think that the ball is in his court now. so what i'm trying to say is just go somewhere where you can get your mind and thoughts together and get a tough attitude; if its men go in with a hard side, like play hard to get or keep your pride up. don't go in with " no one wants to like me" attitude that wont work. it didn't for me. be strong though and good luck!
--- Tuesday, August 24, 2004 - be strong
Answer by: Willow
ok, I was going through this also awhile ago. I to had the same problem that you have, talking with guys and everything; you feel like noone would want to talk to you and your self conciouse. I felt this way and felt like i was eather to ugly or fat or something, that noone would come talk or was to good to talk to me. One of my friends atually told me that i needed to get the streangh back that i lost. I finaly relised that i did because i was better then that. so i just have in my head that i'm better then what i was; this guy that i liked and everything, i didn't know if he liked me or not ( he kept playing and flirting with me) so i took a trip to get my head together and i came back with a more hard core women and everything i did i had a hard attitude. that helped me so much, like with this guy, i think that the ball is in his court now. so what i'm trying to say is just go somewhere where you can get your mind and thoughts together and get a tough attitude; if its men go in with a hard side, like play hard to get or keep your pride up. don't go in with " no one wants to like me" attitude that wont work. it didn't for me. be strong though and good luck!
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