what r the reasons a girl would break up with her bf because of boredom? My gf broke up with me after 4 months. everything was goin well. I always respected her, gave her little gifts, and she was happy with me. she called me a sweetheart and everything. We never had any probs, till out of the blu she comes and tells me she doesnt have feelings for me anymore. she said she got bored with me and only wanted to be friends. I was so heartbroken. i mean shes a great girl and everything, but i began to get angry at everyone just to release my stress. ever since then we have grown farther apart. she said she didnt really understand why she lost interest in me, she just did. then she siad i wasnt the kinda guy she wanted to be with. idk i just need to know what u think y she dumped me and lost her feeliins. dont accuse her of goin after another guy or cheatin on me cuz this happned a few months ago and shes been single ever since. i still luv her and i kno i have to get over her, but i just wana know the reasons why a girl would leave her bf out of boredom.
thnk u
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--- Wednesday, August 25, 2004 - it could be her
Answer by: brielle
look - some girls just do that. i have a couple of friends who do that. they date only for the fun, and then they dump the guy as soon as it starts to get long. that is what they mean by 'boredom'. i have no idea if this is the same for your ex. try to find out a little about her past relationship - about how long they lasted that is. that way you can tell if she was only in for the fun and games. . . or not.
and maybe, sadly, she just discovered that you weren't her type. you shouldn't change yourself because of that, however. it is not your fault she isn't into your type. looking into her past relationships can help with whether she left you because of reason one or two.
there is also a benifit to 'snooping' around your ex's [as long as you don't get into stalking!] business. in a recent study it has helped the person over their ex faster than just trying to forget about everything. try it a little - it helped me get over my ex!
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