ok, a while ago i was at an overnighter and well, my boyfriend wasnt able to go so i was really disapointed, but i still had fun. Then a few hours before it ended me and my friend were getting really tired so we sat down at a table and just talked to eachother, well, along came this kid, Billy and he started hitting on me and i told him that i had a boyfriend, and then he left me along...for like 5 minutes. then when he came back i had just stood up and he puts his arm around me and we started walking, well, then he feels me up and i walked away, then he found me again and tried getting me into the backroom but i said NO! and he was just being a total jerk the whole rest of the night and didnt care that i already had/have a boyfriend. see, the problem is, i feel guilty, not so much of what DID happen, but what COULD HAVE happened....and this isnt some childish problem, i'm 15 and its just really bugging me...someone please tell me if i'm wrong...thanx a bunch! love you all! :) <3
Responses to this article:
--- Sunday, October 31, 2004 - its not your fault
Answer by: beebee
gurl i wished i had small problems like that..!! thats a really easy question. you have no reason to feel guilty...Just forget about it.If your feeling guilty maybe its because you wished you would have did something with that kid...Thats the only thing i can think of... beebee
--- Monday, August 30, 2004 - he already knows
Answer by: 392064193
ok, sorry i didnt include this in my question, but i've already told my boyfriend, and it didn't help me that much, at least not like i thought it would. sorry if i confused people, but yeah, he already knows, but i still need help getting over my guilt.
--- Monday, August 30, 2004 - u shouldn't
Answer by: confuzed_gurl
ok, first off, it is not ur fault bacuase he did that after u told hiom u had a bf, second off, u need to tel ur bf ur seldf so he doesn't hear it from ne body else third off, if ur bf doesn't want to talk to u after this than tel him it was that guys fault tell him( if u do ) tell him that u love him and if he doens't want to talk give him a few days or how ever long he needs. Best of luck bye
--- Monday, August 30, 2004 - RE: feel guilty
Answer by: Guy
Its not your fault, don't feel guilty that guy was a total *butt*hole. Its guys like this that gives many guys a bad rep. I'd tell your boyfriend before he hears it diffrently... if you know what i mean (stupid rumors).Best of Luck and Godbless.
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