I would like some advice on what to do in my current situation. Here it is:
I hang out with a group of about 7 friends on the weekends (3 guys, 4 girls). During the summer before school started, I began to get feelings from one of the girls, so I did something to find out if she felt the same way. I held her hand, and it seemed to go well and such, she wasn't just letting her hand sit there and what-not, she was moving her ifngers etc. However this turned out to be bad timing because I was going on vacation for a few weeks and I wouldn't have contact with her, so before I left I told her that I liked her and asked if she would want to do something sometime, and she said yes. When I got back I didn't go and ask her to do something right away tho, in fact i haven't brough it up yet because I wanted to try and find out if she still felt the same way. So over the last few times that our group has gotten together I have held her hand a few times, but it didnt feel the same, so I'm not sure if she would still want to do something. She has also been talking to one of the other guys in the group more as well, and giving him attention, but I could be making that seem more than it is because I can be jealous at times. What should I do?
Thanks for all your help, it is apreciated.
-James
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--- Monday, September 20, 2004 - ok
Answer by: UnderCloud
if u also like her ..then. dont let her feel that ure loosing your interest on her.be frank and go out with her.do simple things yet that become a large one. thanx for ure help to me. UnderCoud Orlando
--- Monday, September 20, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
Dude, take her out to the movies, and pay more attention to her. She probably is feeling that you may be losing interest in her as you haven't taken her out!
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