ok. Im in love with this girl and we have been friends for a long time now. She has had about 8 bfs in her life, all of which she broke up because of loss of interest. She knows how I feel about her, and she says that its not me at all, that she just doesnt want a bf at this point right now. She just dates around for fun now, but nothing more happens. The reason she told me she doesnt want to have a bf right now is because she doesnt want to lose interest in him, and then have to break his heart. we are both 16 years old in our junior years of high school.
My question to u is this- why is she being like this, why does she just lose interest like that? Is there anything to do to maintain the interest, will she change in years to come? She says she is willing to give me a chance someday to go out, but my gretest fear is that itll turn out just like her other relationships, all of which lasted about a month each. Although there was 1 which lasted 4 months, but then it was over. So is there anything I can do, is it just because she is young, will she change in the future? she says she wants to get married someday, like around her early 20s, but if she continues doing this to every bf she has, how will tht day come?
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