Thanx for reading this post, I would really apreciate some advice.
Im totally inlove with this guy - ill call him anonymous. I met him thru my best guyfriend, michael. Okay i didn't actually meet him, but i've heard lots about him. He looks like the kinda guy I can connect to. I don't know how to explain it, We haven't met yet, and I already fell like I know him! Am I Crazy? I don't have the guts to go up to him coz. . .
a) He is in another school
b) There have been rumours that he is dating my enemy
c) My enemy has probably spread rumours around HER school about me
d) She is very pretty
And thats not the worst part. I've just found out that michael, my best guy friend, has a crush on me. Usually I would consider him but he wouldn't be good boyfriend material. Michael knows that I have a thing for his friend, dont ask me how. I didn't tell him.
Okay well thanks for reading, Candyfloss :-)
Responses to this article:
--- Monday, September 20, 2004 -
Answer by: Sam
No, no, no.
You do not "love" this guy. You don't know him. Love is deeper than a simple crush. There is a HUGE difference.
That said -- you're jumping to serious conclusions here. You don't know if he is dating this girl, let alone anybody...
Basically -- you just need to talk to this guy YOURSELF and get to know him. Then you can find out if he happens to be a nice guy -- if he has a cool personality, what his interests are, etc., and decide if you still have interest the guy.
Good luck kiddo.
--- Saturday, September 18, 2004 - I feel for you
Answer by: candyfloss
Hey Candyfloss!
I totally feel sorry for you, take into consideration that Michael also has feelings, but I get what you're goin thru. Dont talk to Michael or he wont be your friend. And your crush is dating your enemy? She must have spoken and gossiped a lot about you then. Ask your best gurlfriend to phone Michael and get your crushe's fone number. Once you got that sms him and pretend you don't know who it is so it doesnt appear like you actually looked for his number.
Michael, did he come up to ur face and tell u that he likes you? if not, it could just be a rumor. . . And are you gonna give a guy up coz of a stupid rumor? I don't think ya should!
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