Ok, i belive wed would be i think 5 motnths since me and my x broke up... It wasnt a good relationship at all. Too many details that i will not get into. I know i am over him. Now i found out that my freinds boyfreinds freind likes me. I think i kind of like him to. The problem?? Hes 14. And im 16. He asked me beofre "hypothetically" if id date him, i said i wasnt sure ill let him now later that night. I thought about it and i deciede that i wanted to get to know him more and think things through before i got into anything. We went to a dance last night, and were dancign, but i felt realy werid, im not sure why. I wasnt sure fi it was nervousness or if i dint like him at all. He kept trying to kiss me during the night and he caught me offguard and got one. But wen i gave him a peck, he started making out with me!! I really didnt feel right then becasue he was totally going to fast. We werent even going out yet/at all. I talked to him about it that night and siad i really wasnt ready and told him he needs to slw down. He agreed and we are suppose to hang out more. My freind talked to him today about how i was feeling or how she thought i was feeling. Wen she told me wat she said, i realized that was the reason. I didnt want to get into the mess that i was in before with my ex. I got hurt then and i dint want to get hurt again.So now im just really confused and dont know what is hould about the whole x-bf thing, and with him being younger than me....Please give me any kind of advice anyone thinks i should do... Thanks a lot.. Jess....
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Answer by: love pro adviser
well, i have a suggestion. Why not just go out with the one that likes you, the young kid who is 14. Well, just one problem there. He is younger than you and what I've seen is that I've had friends that dated older girls and they didn't have a good time trying to make a relationship work and deep down in your heart, If you like that kid, ask him out. Don't even worry about your ex and just go for it. good luck.
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