i've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. Its very hard making this relationship work because im white and he's black. My parents are really against it. But i love him so much on da real. He was my ''first''. He makes me feel like the most special white girl on dis earth when we are together. But all he seems to want is sex and money. He doesnt even call me i have to call him and when i call he asks for money. He tells me he loves me . I told him i thought he was using me for my money and he got all mad and said it wasnt true. Then his ex girlfriend be calling my house saying he's still with her. but he said its just because she wants him back. So i dont know what to believe. Then my cousin April that had even got us together rode by his house and saw anotha black girl sitting on his lap and i called and asked him about it and he said it was his cousin. And of course i cussed him out so he just hung up. Well i called him back like a week later because i really missed him and he hadn't called me. and he acted like everything was cool. and asked me for money! and it was a day before my birthday. and he knew that..i told him all i had was my b-day money and he wanted it!! i was like WTF... he didnt even call me and say happy birthday. but then again he never calls me!! I really love him alot. and he claims he loves me..I know everyone thinks i should dump him and everything. but i cant..i dont have the strength to, when im not with him it feels like im dying. the last time we broke up i tryed to talk to other guys but i couldnt stop thinking about him when i was talking to other guys. I dont know what to do someone please give me some advice to say to him or something.. thanks, beebee
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