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Why do I always do this?! Why do I like him?!!!
By: alexandria
someone please help me out. I have a boyfriend of 3 years. it seems short but it feels like we have been together forever. but I have a huge crush on this guy from my job!!! he's at least two years older than me. Its killin me cuz I think I like him! but I have a boyfriend and guess what, he has a girlfriend and he doesn't really even know i exist! i'm just another fellow employee at the job to him. this is hurting my heart. what do i do? I feel guilty cuz i have a boyfriend, but im only 19. but yet i feel hurt because i have this crush. even if i was single i'd still be hurt. why do i always have crushes on guys who don't like me? why am i crushin on someone who has a girlfriend while i have a boyfriend? i'm just so evil! I don't know what do...
Responses to this article:
--- Saturday, October 9, 2004 - dont know a title
Answer by: shadow fire
You are not evil. You don't know he doesn't like you. These feelings are normal for people. You see, at this stage of life, love is a question. First, ask yourself, do you really like your boyfriend, or love him. Then, ask yourself, do you really like this guy. Look at the facts. Look at your decisions. Look at the four lives in the equation; you, your boyfriend, the guy, his girlfriend. Okay, I'm not meaning for you to go into deep thought. Just look at it for a minute. Okay, now back to reality. You arent evil. You dont know he doesnt like you. For all you know, he might be secretly crushing on you. You never know what truly goes on. What you think you know, can be deception, part of the truth, and even the truth itelf. Now, back to the hurting your heart. I have felt somehting of that extent before. For me, it's different. For you, tell yourself that your heart does not hurt. You are with your boyfriend right now. The guy has a girlfriend. Wait. If you wait, the people will play their cards. If you find these words at any rate confusing, forget them. I myself don't even knnow what I'm saying. I dearly hope this works out for you.
--- Saturday, October 9, 2004 - hey there brit
Answer by: alexandria
hey there brit .. this is johnny ... yeah this keeps happening over and over again doesnt it? well i just want to say its alright that you do and ill work with you through it .. everything is a secret with you tho. please come to me .. im the one who loves you and would do anything in the world for you .... brit things like secrets can really separate us and end up splittin us.. im here for you as well as i know youre there for me .. you should know yourself that the thought is the same as doing babe... i love you and hope this helps alot
--- Friday, October 8, 2004 - naw
Answer by: DAVE
your not evil, your temted. this happens to alot of ppl. question: do you love your bf and want to stay w/him? if so, then giving him up 4 sum1 who is already taken and doesnt even know/like you doesnt make a lot of sense, does it. be careful, though, if your lookin to get aquainted, cause your bf could get pretty jealous. hope this helps.
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