K, I am what you would call a "don't touch me" girl
I can't stand when my exbf droped one of those "subtle" hints that he wants to hold hands or anything. So I broke up with him.(wayyyy, too physical)
So now I am with a new guy. He is sweet, smart, just everything you want in a guy. He isn't all mushy or anything. only prob is that people keep telling him "you guys don't Look like you like each other or are going out." he is probably starting to wonder if i want to or anything. I don't. I don't want that to end a relationship though, because that is what i like in him- he doesn't do all of that stuff. if we just run together, or go play instruments together, it is fine with me. I don't want him to turn into my ex.
Plus, I think he is embarassed, because people tease him that he is going out with a girl like me (wears hoodies, and is quite a social clown) he is more serouis or is the "funny" guys side kick.
anyone have some friendly advice about what to do?
Responses to this article:
--- Tuesday, December 28, 2004 - confused
Answer by: AutumnsTragedy
How is holding hands way to physical?
I was afraid to hold my exboyfriends hands because I was nervous to just do it.
Thats a silly reason to dump someone.
Are you sure that you're ready for a boyfriend?
--- Friday, December 24, 2004 - Holly
Answer by: greenfairy
hey holding hands? hey no offense but what is the point of going out with him? u jus sound like good friends to me, and acting like you ex is a monster just because he wanted to hold hands? come on! sorry i must sound like a right bitch but hey i supose if ya both happy then thats all that matters
--- Saturday, November 6, 2004 - dont touch me girl?
Answer by: shadow fire
Personally, you sound rather picky. Kind of like my 2year old nephew. Demanding in own way. Well, Ignore the other people. And your boyfriend sounds like me, sort of. So, ignore people. As long as you two are both happy, that should be fine. Maybe you two should take it step by step, and you try and be a little more physical. Not holding hands, hugging, all that. But not as, tender to it.
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