K.. I hope this doesn't end up too long.. and thanks for your time.
Well there is this guy I know and I am good friends with, whom I've been crushing on lately... we'll call him 'Mr. X' So anyways... Mr. X is a real sweety.. he carries my really heavy saxophone for me (at first I had to ask him.. but now he just does it)... he talks to me in the hallways... comes up to my locker and tries to start a conversation.. although he isn't always so successful but its ok.. So things have been great with Mr. X and one day.. his friend (whom we'll call Mr. Y) pulls onto the strap of my purse.. thus stopping me in the hallway...and he asked if Mr. X and I were going out.. and I was like, "No.." and Mr Y was like, "That's not what Mr. X said!!" and I don't remember what I said to Mr. X (whom was next to Mr. Y) right after that.. just that I play hit him w/ my binder.. and then at the end of the school on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving.. I saw him in the hall and said hi.. he then came up and started walking with me to my locker.. and we were talking and stuff then someone asked him a question that I hadn't heard... and there are doors to exit the school at the end of the hallway (which is where my locker is located) and he looked like he was gonna go out the doors and he said, "Yeah right... like I'd leave school with out my binder!" And I didn't know that he didn't have it.. so I was like, "You could've gotten it at your locker instead of walking with me.." and he went, "Oh don't worry... I have all the time in the world.." then he paused.. thought about it.. and went, "On second thought.. I'd better get going.. you have a great Thanksgiving!" and I went, "You too!" and he walked off... so then the guy that asked him the question said, "Some boyfriend-girlfriend you guys are..." and I was like, "Oh.. we aren't going out though.. we're just friends.." And the guy said, "Thats not what he said.. I just asked him if you guys were going out and he was like, 'yeah,'" So I was like, "Oh.. thats strange.. hmm.." and I just kept going w/ my locker So... to my question.. I'm getting signals that he likes me.. and now with the telling-everyone-that-we-are-going-out-and-not-letting-me-know-thing.. do you think he wants to go out with me? I just think its really strange... and also.. I've never really dated anyone before... so I don't know exactly what to do in a relationship.. so if you think he does feel the same as me.. could you give me some dating advice too?
Wow.... that was REALLY long.. I'm sorry.. You don't have to take the time to read all of that.. but thanks a million if you do! -Jenny
Responses to this article:
--- Monday, November 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Sara
Girlfriend he definatly wants to date u!!! Don't worry about not knowing what to do b/c it sounds like he doesn't know what he's doing. It would be great if you could ask him when y'all started going out and see what he says.
SARA
--- Sunday, November 28, 2004 - no prob
Answer by: DAVE
i think he wants to go out. it doesnt sound to me like hes kidding arouynd cause everyone believed him when he said you were. thats only what i think. you should ask him. good luck.
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