i've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. Its very hard making this relationship work because im white and he's black. My parents are really against it. But i love him so much on da real. He was my ''first''. He makes me feel like the most special white girl on dis earth when we are together. But all he seems to want is sex and money. He doesnt even call me i have to call him and when i call he asks for money. He tells me he loves me . I told him i thought he was using me for my money and he got all mad and said it wasnt true. Then his ex girlfriend be calling my house saying he's still with her. but he said its just because she wants him back. So i dont know what to believe. Then my cousin April that had even got us together rode by his house and saw anotha black girl sitting on his lap and i called and asked him about it and he said it was his cousin. And of course i cussed him out so he just hung up. Well i called him back like a week later because i really missed him and he hadn't called me. and he acted like everything was cool. and asked me for money! and it was a day before my birthday. and he knew that..i told him all i had was my b-day money and he wanted it!! i was like WTF... he didnt even call me and say happy birthday. but then again he never calls me!! I really love him alot. and he claims he loves me..I know everyone thinks i should dump him and everything. but i cant..i dont have the strength to, when im not with him it feels like im dying. the last time we broke up i tryed to talk to other guys but i couldnt stop thinking about him when i was talking to other guys. I dont know what to do someone please give me some advice to say to him or something.. thanks, beebee
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--- Wednesday, November 17, 2004 - ...
Answer by: koolkidwanabe
who care's it is ur life and good luck..
--- Saturday, November 6, 2004 - Hey, babe, cut him loose
Answer by: SillyNan
I have seen this before. But, it is not his color that matters, my best friend is black, and he isn't ANYTHING like that. It is the person inside, and don't let anyone say otherwise.
Remember that it is YOUR money, and once in a while if he asks, keep account of how much he asks for. Then ask him to pay you back.
I hate to say this, but he is a PLAYER! I mean, cousins don't sit on each others laps and it is obvious he is just using you.
There is someone out there that actually cares about you, and i say you take your parents advice and move on to someone new.
Even if he was your first, its time to move on. I totally dig this one guy, but I moved on and he was my first.
Just tell this guy politely that its over. Like "I know we have been together so long, but it looks like you have moved on, and i feel I need to also. That wasn't your cousin sitting on your lap, and I think you should be free. I like you enough to let you go."
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