ok 1st of all thanks 4 reading dis... i was wid a boy for 2 yrs. we had alot of problems. He was my 1st & we just had alot of problems thru da relationship.but i luv him So much. well finally about 2 wks ago i decided 2 try 2 move on. well now i have a new b/f. he treats me like a queen. He would do n-e thing 4 me..well.2 day my 1st called me crying b/c he had found out i moved on.dat just melted me down.but i didnt lie. & i told him dat i did find sum1 else. So he hung up crying. Now i dont kno what 2 do..i luv my 1st more than anything. but i care alot 4 my new b/f. in my head its telling me 2 go back 2 my 1st. but i kno dat would be wrong. Plz Help mE!! i love my 1st so much. i would do n-e thing 4 him.but i care for my new b/f also..
thanks 4 ur time..
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--- Monday, November 29, 2004 - I have the same problem!!
Answer by: SillyNan
Alright. Think carefully, WHY exactly did u break off with the first one, why did you want to move on? Was it because he was boring, abusive or just getting old? If it was because he was getting "old" then you know the saying "You don't know what you have until you lose it." And go back to ur 1st.
If u moved on because he wasn't all that interesting anymore and he was and/or mean then stay with your current bf. The grass is always greener on the other side.
As I have as similar problem, I am trying to follow my own advice......good luck girl!
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