This is not really an issue about sex, but more about sexuality. Okay, I am a guy, and I am a senior in high school. I have been having fun here and there, and I am really looking forward to college. the big problem is that I am a virgin, and if I go to college as a virgin, then I will have no life and no fun at all. Some people have even told me this. College girls are going to expect me to be experienced. I mean, I want to have sex, but I can't do it if I have never done it. I mean, there are probably special dorms for people like me............ Well, I do have a nice personality, and I am generally nice towards girls. I do not want to have sex by getting a girl drunk at a party. I am still really afraid that my future college peers will not accept my sexuality. I hope that college girls are not as slutty as most people say. If you can give me advice about this,I would appreciate it.
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--- Thursday, December 2, 2004 - relax
Answer by: LithTannasg
I'm a senior in high school, too. I am also a virgin. you're looking at it from the wrong side, a girl prizes virginity very highly (generally) and will think of it as far more special if you're a virgin than you imagine. hope this helps a little
I know I am a little young to be giving u this advice, but why do it? You may think its cool to be "experienced" but trust me, its better to wait, it will seem more special and girls will like you for WHO YOU ARE not what you can do. My best guy friend is like that and he is really glad he waited. My cousin didn't, and now there isn't even college for him, he's a dad. Either you be resonsible or not. Just think, let your conscience to the rest. Good luck!
--- Friday, November 26, 2004 - chill dude
Answer by: shadow fire
you are talking just like 'Jim' did in American Pie. They don't have special dorms for people still virgins. If they did, 3/4 of everyone would be in those special dorms. Sure, some practice would be nice, but try and remain calm about it. If you said you dont want to have sex with a girl you got drunk at a party or something like that (and you did say it) then there goes one of your ways to get laid in college. Just don't get so anxious about it. Your time will come. Your time will come. Of course, you can rent and watch the three American Pie (and American Wedding) videos too. I think those might help some, maybe. Good luck with it.
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