Hi everyone! Thank you for all the helpful advice everyone gave me about the guy I was “in love with.” I ended it and I haven’t been happier! Thank you so much! Anyways I need some new advice now. My close friend just recently told me she had an affair. It was with this man who was older than her and it has been going on for about a month. They have done sexual things but no sex. She told him she wanted to end it and they did, but she hasn’t told her boyfriend. I don’t think she will either. I need help because I know and I am faced with the decision to either tell the boyfriend or not. Please help me. I don’t want anyone to hate me in the end, but I know that will be a very slim chance.
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--- Tuesday, December 14, 2004 - this is a tough one
Answer by: ashperk16
I believe that you should encourage your friend to tell her boyfriend herself instead of you doing the dirty work. it was her fault cheating on him so she should suffer the consequences.dont let her mistake make you loose a friendship.
--- Monday, December 13, 2004 - DONT TELL HIM
Answer by: beebee
OK I DISAGREE ON THAT. HERE'S WHAT I THINK..BUT KEEP IN MIND EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN PERSONAL OPINIONS. YOU SHOULD KEEP IN MIND IF YOU WANT TO LOSE THIS GIRL WHO CHEATED ON HER BOYFRIEND AS A FRIEND OR NOT. BECAUSE MORE THAN LIKELY IF YOU TELL HIM THIS SHE WILL HAVE SOME ANGER AGAINST YOU BUT OF COURSE WHO WOULDNT? YOU ARE RUINING HER LITTLE FUN..LOL...OBVIOUSLY SHE MUST NOT LOVE HER BOYFRIEND TO CHEAT ON HIM...IN YOUR HEART IM SURE U KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD DO ..SO JUST DO WHAT U THINK U SHOULD..
ok, listen , if u think it is gonna hurt hjim that bad then u should tell him if u think u shouldn't because its not ur bsiness then dont, but ui know over all u should tell him, believe me i did it once but i was the girl cheating. tell him adn do me a favor.
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