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Guys please help with this, I am sure u all know!!
By: SillyNan
I feel split in two. I am a freshman in high school. I have a bf (lets call him T) who is a WONDERFUL guy. He goes to church, is in drama, varsity cross country and is only a sophmore in high school. He gets A's, B's and C's, but is in Calculus and Physics (as a soph) and is really this smart, sweet guy.
My parents know OF him, but don't know we are going out. He calls, and we talk for over an hour almost every other day. Once I was up til 11:30 on the phone w/ himm ( he called at 9:00)
People acused him of being gay, which i know for an ABSOLUTE FACT that he is straight. He gets really pissed off when people say this, or tell me that i am lesbian (just because I have short hair, and i am straight as well)
So he sent me an e mail that was like "we really need to do some stuff, you know like see a movie or hang out at someones house" and "I really want to make out with u, I know it may seem creepy for you since I am only your second bf, but I do" and I was sort of taken back. I like him soo much, but is he "rushing" stuff because he wants to prove he's straight?
Lately I have been finding excuses so I don't have to do anything with him. I want to, but something is holding me back.
Also, people tell me that they would watch out for him, and tease me because they say I like another guy (just as a friend though)
T and I have been "going out" since NOvember 2nd, and haven't really done anything. Now I want to, and so does he. But something has been holding me back....
I guess i have a few question you all might be able to hlpe me with.
Should I do things with T and tell my parents what??? and What is he thinking? He is always saying, "we have to do something soon!"
please help! As much as I hang out with guys, I need some advice!!!
Responses to this article:
--- Thursday, December 23, 2004 - good luck x
Answer by: greenfairy
talk to him about how you feel and try and get him 2 understand.... maybe the reason you don't wanna do anything with him is that he isn't tha right guy for you, why don't u start back as friends... then you should know how you feel then if you still wanna go out with him go on a few dates talk get to know each other maybe a good nite kiss? good luck x
--- Monday, December 20, 2004 - maybe you should go out
Answer by: some_guy_542
I think the reason you are held back is because of his message saying he wants to make out with you. All you two need to prove love for yourselves is to strt dating ; maybe kiss or something. Just be careful and try not to hold yourself back and do not be afraid.
--- Sunday, December 19, 2004 - Well......
Answer by: missknowitall
girl dont do ne ting u dont wanna do, ok. You shoudl only do things if you want to, and dont tell your parents, asue they will totally freak out on you, he is probably jsut trying to prove he is straight, so be careful. yuou shoudln't do nething that ur uncomfortable with and be careful dont let him force u into anything, believe me i would know.
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