ok, i have a friend, we haev been friends since beginning of 9th grade, we have gotten close and she told me today she might be pregnant, help me, i need to know how i can help her, becasue i really want to help her adfn i haven't told ne one that becuase hse didn't want to . ok , help plzzzz
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--- Wednesday, December 8, 2004 -
Answer by: Sara
There are places that she can turn to if she doesn't want to tell her parents yet...there is one called star of hope over by where I live...They will really help her in the situation that she is in...I know that it is ultimately your friends decision but I had a friend in high school who had an abortion and she regrets it everyday...just be careful b/c a lot of these places will help you get prepared to have an abortion but they don't prepare you for the rest of your life.
--- Wednesday, December 8, 2004 - well.....
Answer by: some_guy_542
Well, if I were you, I would tell her parents. She has to suffer the consequences. Do not abort the baby or adopt it. Since she got pregnant, it is her responsibility. Also, you should help by finding the boy who got her pregnant because it's also his fault and he also needs to take care of the kid. Teen pregnency is a national tragedy, and there are consequences. Also, when the kid gets older, maybe you should teach him/her to be a good person and not do any bad things like drugs or driving drunk or getting pregnant/getting another person pregnant. I hope I helped. 1+1=3 when it comes to carelessness.
--- Wednesday, December 8, 2004 - Wow!
Answer by: love pro adviser
well, why in the world was she knocked up in the beginning? I guess I can say that she will need all the support you can give her, okay? So yea, support her and don't give up on her.
--- Wednesday, December 8, 2004 - Stay close
Answer by: johnc2
I would stay with her for support as she will need all the support that she can get. Always help her in a situation where she needs help, i.e. falling behind class etc. I wish you all the best for you, her and the baby if she is pregnant.
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