Help me! This girl I am friendly with always is cheeky to me inside of school but she was all nice to me outside of school. She said to me that she never wanted to speak to me again, I said that she was just like other girls and that she had no heart. She said that she wasn't being cheeky and said she can't go to the cinema with me as she has a boyfriend(even though I never asked her out) and she said not to call & text her everyday and she said sorry if I thought she was mean. I really like her and want to be her friend. I really care about her and don't want her to get hurt by this boyfriend. What should I do as everyone bullies her for being my friend?
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--- Monday, December 27, 2004 -
Answer by: greenfairy
ok the girl in question is bascily not talking to ya coz she cares what other people think too much. she doesn't want to be bullied anymore so she hopes if she stops being your friend then people will stop picking on her... let things cool down for a bit but let her know that you don't care what other ppl think and you know that she's not being mean to hurt you but she's acting like this to protect herself... like some_guy_542 says don't call her evryday because that culd push her away even more but good luck xx
--- Wednesday, December 8, 2004 - It's not their business
Answer by: some_guy_542
Since people make fun of her, that's why she's only mean to you at school. The basic thing is that it's none of anyone's business at school. I suggest that you and her keep your relationship a complete secret since it causes a big problem at school. I am pretty sure she likes you. However, I think that her friends kinda might have something against you. Maybe you should talk to her and to other people about it and ask why it's a problem. Oh and about the thing about not calling every day, I suggest you take that advice. If you just keep calling her, she will think you are obsessive and will ive her more of a reason not to like you. Overcalling might also cause her boyfriend to get mad and suspicious. If that happens, you are in BIG TROUBLE. I hope you take my advice.
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