Title: Should I keep fooling around with him or stop?

By: allie_9

Ok... so theres this guy named Jeremy.He is a junior in h.s and Im a freshman. He liked me last year but I turned him down. Then I started liking him this year, and I told him. We made out a few times and I told him I was over him, then a month later I told him I was never really over him. It was all kinda a big mess. Anyways, for about the past month, we have been fooling around a lot, not having sex, but pretty much everything else you can do. He knows I still like him, and sometimes he says comments like "well if you hope we'll be dating someday... comments that suggest we could possibly date in the future. But he also sometimes talks about other girls he likes.
Im the only girl hes been fooling around with for the past month, unless hes lying to me. We have a pretty good time with eachother, we make eachother laugh and we trust eachother. I hate the fact that Im so in the dark here though, I like him a lot but I hate waiting for him to call and being disappointed if he doesnt. I have no idea at all how he feels and Im scared to ask him to tell me. Sometimes it seems like he loves being around me, but sometimes we go a long time without talking. Im so confused and I cant stand it...does it seem like he has any feelings at all? Should I just go along with the whole friends with benefits deal for a while until he decides what he wants? Or should I spare my feelings and end the benefits deal right now...? Thanks for any advice....

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Friday, December 24, 2004 - well,.........i got some advice for u
Answer by: missknowitall