I just want to know something really quick. Why is it that sometimes girls are still in love with their guys when the guy treats her like garbage? I mean, that does not make any sense. I have heard some cases where girls say "My boyfriend does not treat me good most of the time but I still love him to death". It's very confusing. Any answers here would be appreciated.
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--- Sunday, December 12, 2004 -
Answer by: Sara
women are stupid...simple as that...they have this nurturing nature just like built within them and they DO think that they can change these jerks...most jerks are not jerks all the time...they tell us what we want to hear when we want to hear it and we fall completely head over heals...I have been in love to the point that no matter what the jerk did my love for him never changed...true love is unconditional...
On the other hand...women have more pressure to look good and be perfect...next time you go out look around you...billboards mag.s even girls around you...women feel that they never are good enough...they feel too fat, too skinny, their nose is too big whatever...they can always find something wrong with themselves
have you ever noticed that it is harder for women to get along? bc we compare ourselves to every other girl around us...a girl can be instantly jealous and not like the other girl...stupid right?
a lot of girls have self-esteem prob.s...they don't feel that they deserve any better...I admit that I have been a victim of this crime myself...I don't know y I did it looking back...it just seemed like any little prob that we were having at the time I just wanted it to be over and the thought of losing him was way worse than whatever the prob. was...also my therapist told me it had to do with the way my father treated me which wasn't very good...I also thought that he was just being a guy not showing his feelings but that deep down inside he really loved me...I don't know it was like a challange...I love manly men...I guess it just took me some time to realize that real men know how to treat a girl...not like the insensitive type...
hope this helps!!!
--- Sunday, December 12, 2004 - I know...
Answer by: shadow fire
Co-dependant, need to hang on to past, plenty of good reasons. I don't see why they do it though. I was able to throw away my past relations (I never had a gf, strictly crushes) easily. Giving up was no prob. Someday, maybe the answers to all these questions will be revealed to us. Is there life after death? How many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop? What would happen if I had pushed that big red button? Why did the chicken cross the road? And finally, where did I set down my drink... Just kidding: Why do girls act the way they do? ....what happened to my goldfish? (flush)....
--- Saturday, December 11, 2004 - its called lingering love
Answer by: iloveV
love can be found any where!! in airplanes, Buger king, damn, evan a cardboard box!! if the the boy treats the girl like crap and still loves him; love can linger even if the girl is treatd like crap. maybe also the girl thinks she can change the one she love (also who treats her like crap). I know, my grandma is treated pretty badly, but she still loves him!!! she thinks the sheep can cure the lion!
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