Hey, pepes. My friend is having trouble with her bf. She thinks there is a problem. she asked him about it and he was pretty aggressive toward her. He said some pretty heavy stuff, then signed off from the IM on her. shes really upset, but i dont know what to do. any help would be appreciated. thanx
DAVE
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--- Monday, January 31, 2005 - Just help her
Answer by: some_guy_542
This other person is right. Just try to help her out whenever you get the opportunity. Geez, I don't kno why guys have to be such assholes all the time. One possible reason he is getting angry is because he might be drunk or on drugs because they reduce the amount of oxygen in the brain. Another thing is that he just might be involvde with another person. Whatever the reason, he needs to stop. Just help her out whenever you can.
--- Thursday, January 27, 2005 - -
Answer by: kisses
dave, you've helped me a lot, now its my turn to help you:
i know how your friend feels-i've been in that position before and its painful! right now she really needs a friend and someone who will be there for her. ask if she wants to talk about it or something, but if she says no, leave it at that-its not the kind of thing we like to talk about right away. just settle for being there for her when she needs it most; right now. it will also prove that you're going to continue to be there for her. try to keep her mind off of him too!
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