ok i posted dis be-4 but didnt get many replies.plz take da time 2 read dis i need help 4-real now..ok i was with my "first" for almost 3 years. he has brought me down so much i mean alot. he has made me feel like i was nothing but a piece of crap literally.but i still just seem to love him so much i mean it's so crazy.he is like the air i breathe without him how do i suceed?! he cheated on me when we were together and he was steadily always wanting all of my money. well on new year's i called his cell & the girl he has been cheatin with answered & cussed me and stuff. and den he called me and told me i was just a ho3. and she told me he just used me 4 money.i mean it has just crushed me, i cant sleep or n-e thing. i just feel like im on level 0...literally..he has played alot of mind games with me. i dont know how 2 recover from all this pain. i just sleep & wait to die more less..please help me... thank you and please reply!!
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--- Monday, January 17, 2005 - WAAAA
Answer by: Jammer
"i still just seem to love him " 1. he cheated on me 2. wanting all of my money 3. He made fun of me 4. didnt care about things i had to say 5. told me i was just a ho3
i can TOTALLY understand why you still seem to love him. he seems like such a nice, sweet, caring guy. i hope you spend the rest of your life with him, you deserve it ;)
p.s. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
--- Monday, January 17, 2005 - Have the same thing going on with me hun
Answer by: Emma
Hun i totally understand how you feel....I have been with this guy for about a year he is my "first" to so i do really get you. He was my best guy friend before we went out, I could tell him anything and he always understood me. But then we started going out, it was great at first but then he started treating me like i was shit. He made fun of me, he told me he didnt care about things i had to say, he told me to deal with my own problems, i didnt get it he ALWAYS wanted to hear what i had to say before, well i knew i couldnt get treated like shit and be used so i dumped him, he didnt even care whitch hurt even worse but it was awesome its been about 2 weeks and i dont regret letting go at all. Even tho i still miss him and i barely could sleep at all the first week, i am fine now. There is this guy i have been kinda hanging out with and he is so nice and so much better than my first and last love, even tho i still miss him sometimes i kno i am better off how i am now, hun let go trust me you wont regret it later....need anymore help hun i am here email me at afilover@wmconnect.com
--- Saturday, January 8, 2005 - its not worth it
Answer by: halley
girl its just not worth your time thinking about him. since he is just treating you like dirt, forget about him! i know that it is easy to say but hard to deal with but you really have to let go. there are loads of other nice guys out there.. don't hurt yourself even more deeply by hanging on. LET GO.
--- Saturday, January 8, 2005 - Just let him go
Answer by: some_guy_542
Just let him go. He does not need to be the air you breathe, and you do not need him. If you fin another guy and just leave him alone and forget about it, you will be able to sleep again.
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