There is a guy that i have liked for the longest time. Lately he has been talking to me alot about matters that you wouldnt bring up with just anyone. And some of the things he says to me seems like flirting but theres a problem.....
I hung out with him and some others on new years and one other occasion and i met his best friend. I had a great time with him and was happy about the new friendship. But the other day online the best friend of the guy i like asked me to go on a date with him and i said yes. at that time i figured it would be good to meet someone else and get to no him better but now that i think about it im scared that the guy i like will find out and if for somereason he was going to give me a chance then he'll think that i dont like him anymore and give up..... or just never give me a chance thinking that im over him and i really really dont want this to happen because i like him so much. BUt ive never been able to flat out say no and theres no way id back out on teh date, because it would be good to get to no this other kid to.....but i dont really no what to do about it for both of them!
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--- Thursday, January 6, 2005 - not really!
Answer by: love pro adviser
weel that the slight problem with that is that it is called cheating basically. Cheating does'nt go a good way and that is the situation with you at the moment. what i should suggest is that you try to pick someone and stick to him for now. Because out there, that's not a thing you should do. Just try to see if you like his best friend. if not then try to keep going out on a date with the guy you liked before. If you ever need personal advise, e-mail me at blingbling632003@yahoo.com . good luck,
Adrian Barcomb/Love pro adviser
--- Wednesday, January 5, 2005 - a few more questions to add
Answer by: phoebeee
should i tell the guy that im going on the date with that i like this other guy? and befor eor after?
can you go on a date with someone while liking someone else?
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