I have this guy who i have known for about 5 years. He has been my bestfriend as a guy since then. about 3 days ago he said he has very strong feelings for me and that he has loved me since the first year we have met. He told me that it was difficult thing for him to say but he couldnt let it sit inside him anymore...and then he kissed me. Then yesterday i found out that he has a girlfriend that i know and is kinda my friend but i dont hangout with her that much...they have been going out for about 3 weeks now and he told me 3 days ago...HELP! should i tell her or should i say something 2 him or should i just let it go???
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--- Tuesday, January 18, 2005 - r u kidin me?!
Answer by: sydney
ok, for one thing u shouldnt listen to missknowitall, she has her own "he is usin me for ass" situation and doesnt no it herself, so i dont think she has the right to tell other people they have those problems, and i think if the guy was serious he is goin to dump that other girl if u show interest in him, maybe say somethin bout the other girl so he nos u no, then see what he does bout it, i say go for it! show u like him and u 2 will probably end up together
--- Monday, January 17, 2005 - Well...........
Answer by: missknowitall
hey, wats up ok, listen i agree ignore his declaration of love, he told you that when he has a girlfriend, wat does that tell you, i mean hes been going out with this girl then three days ago, he says hes in love with u, not to upset you, but hes probably using u for ass. Srry, but guys do that. So ignore him, i mean yeah ,look at all the evidence.
--- Monday, January 17, 2005 -
Answer by: sam
I think you should ignore his declarations of love -- he has a GIRLFRIEND. What does that tell you???
Bottom line is, if he loved you so truly and wanted to be with you --he'd be with you. He seems like he's trying to be a player, but he is only making himself look like a joke. Don't fall for the lines this kid is feeding you.
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