ok here it is. my X and i broke up like 3 months ago, but i still love him a lot and he says he still loves me. well i was with him for a year and a half and we got engaged and everything. even though i am 16 and he is 17 we have been together on and off for 8 years and only dated one other guy. well after we broke up we were still sleeping together cuase i am way to scared to sleep with anyone from my town cause like almost everyone has an std even my two older brothers so he was my first and i was his second but he didnt sleep with anyone from around here so i think i am safe. but anyways he kissed this girl (100% sure that was it my friend was there and saw it) and she assumed they were dating, well he kept coming home after work to be with me and she seemed to always call during one of our intament times and he would just hit ignore on his cell, that made me feel so good inside. anyways she called my house lookin for a fight so like an idiot i told her she could have one and i made my x go tell her the truth that he wanted nothing to do with her he loved me and still had been sleeping with me. we went home and everything was great tell the cops showed up cause they were called after we left and it was a REALLY big mess. well anyways now i think i might be pregnent but the thing is i am only 16 and it would DEVISTATE my dad. I toke a test and it came back negative but i still have not had my period and it is now 4 weeks late. i am really nervous what do i do
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--- Tuesday, January 25, 2005 -
Answer by: fidgit
Hey hun, Gosh that has to be crazy for you...But I would make sure that he really did tell her that he loves u and doesnt want anything to do with her..And also make sure hes not calling her back you know??And yea if i were u i would take another test and make sure...
--- Monday, January 24, 2005 -
Answer by: kisses
there are a lot of things i could comment on about your story, but i'll focus on you might being pregnant. well-where should i start-ok, take another (more reliable) test, or even go to a doctor. if you go there, dont worry, you will be kept a secret and your parents never have to know you went in for a test. another thing i would get tested for while you're there, is an std...cuz you never know-no matter what he says, or get him tested cuz if he's your first and he's clear, your fine. once you get tested, you can decide where to go from there, whatever the outcome is.
good luck to you and i wish you and your man the best of luck...i hope things turn out how you'd like them to!
~*~kisses~*~
--- Monday, January 24, 2005 - get another
Answer by: shadow fire
Get another test if you need to. From what I've gathered, some girls don't have periods, or something. But if you really need it, go get another test.
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