Title:
IO haev an interesting question , plzz help guys,
By: missknowitall
ok, me and my bf, kinda got close, alittle to close, but i dont regret it, lets just say i was drying humping, stradled him and we basically had sex with clothes on, i want to know from ppl, if now will he be expecting that, and if that will bring us closer, the only reason i say that is i highly agree with that im probably going to spend the rest of my life with him and hes a 8th grader(supose to be in 9th) and im a 9th grader, adn another question was that is it bad, when i told my bf , that i thought he wasn't a virgin, and that i htought he would have ended up with this other girl. also, wat would u say if u told ur bf that u were thinking having sex till u were married wiht him, and that u knew u were going to end up with him, plus, he said that it didn't matter if we had sex, that he just wants to be with me. And now , we were having sex with clothes on, and i didn't know that was oign to happen. And i dont want him to think im a slut, cause for 1, thats was the first time it got that imtimate, and for second, i dont want him to expect that, or. that now we've only been going out for 5 months. Is that bad?
Responses to this article:
--- Tuesday, January 25, 2005 -
Answer by: fidgit
Huni.....Where do I start...First of all that he still a lil boy if you ask me, and Im sure hes gonna say it doesnt matter..You shouldnt be worrying about that stuff right now ur in 9th grade u have some time so i would wait if i were you...And no there isnt anything wrong with what u did but i dont think u are in love its puppy love if you ask me...So be safe and use ur brain hun....
--- Thursday, January 20, 2005 - dont worry
Answer by: 120903
ur right, all the other people that responded to your question a pretty much assholes. umm...its good that you're thinking about your future, and the fact that you want to wait until after your married to have sex and everthing. and no, its not true that guys dont go out with girls just for their personality. me and my bf have been together for over a year....and we havent even gone as far as you two have....so i dont see a problem. as long as you've told him that you want to wait to have sex.....and make sure he's not expecting it 24/7...dont worry about it hun!
*~*good luck*~*
--- Wednesday, January 19, 2005 - hi
Answer by: missknowitall
thanks assholes
--- Tuesday, January 18, 2005 -
Answer by: dave
dude, no. ppl do that, theres nothin wrong. u prolly want to wait to have real sex, but i guess u knew that. naw, nothin wrong
--- Tuesday, January 18, 2005 - what?
Answer by: sydney
wtf?! i didnt understand any of that blubberin- except the part "we'll be together forever, and hes ok w/ waitin after marrage to have sex" thing- ummm yea, u must be really nieave to think guys go out w/ girls cause they like their "personality" i agree with the last guy: hahahahahahahahahahahaha
--- Monday, January 17, 2005 - haha
Answer by: Jammer
"im probably going to spend the rest of my life with him"- HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
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