Theres this guy that i met about 2 years ago and he had this serious g/f although she was in college..They were pretty serious..So we were good friends, always made each other laugh. Then this past summer...He broke up with his g/f soon after i broke up with my bf but it wasnt for each other it was for our own reasons.Then we had this fling that turned into a little more and more after that, but he was going off to college in august so we both didnt want a long distance relationship..and i have big trust issues with guys so i knew i couldnt trust him. But when he went off we still talked on the phone and hooked up when he came home but sometimes he would tell me hed call and wouldnt and then wouldnt call for like 2 or 3 days...so i got fed up bc it was hurting me and i am a senior in highschool so i was like i ve got way more important stuff to do then worry about him so i called it off and the next time he came home he tried to hook up but i didnt...i thought it make me feel better but it made me feel worse...so gradually it came back to what it had been...but he was still not calling me..so i told him over and over that i had a problem with it and how i felt about him yada yada, and he never told me strait up how he felt..so i confronted him about that problem and he said he didnt want to tell bc he didnt want to make me like him any more than what i already did..so things got better and then all of a sudden last friday i talked to him and he said hed talk to me later so im like ok. then sat he didnt call and i havent talked to him since... im so mad bc i dont know what to do and then im confused bc i dont know if i really want to be with him..Its like when i have him i dont want him then when i dont have him it kills me.Its just when im with him everything makes sense like nothing can hurt me, he makes me feel soo good about myself and then turns around and drops me for like a week. What should i do?
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--- Friday, January 21, 2005 - Give him a chance
Answer by: some_guy_542
College people are very busy. Just because he does not call for 3 days or a week is no big reason to break up. Maybe if you let him, he will call you and everything will be better again. Also, maybe one reason he does not call is because he's waiting for you to call him. I think you should stay together.
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