My mind is in turmoil...I have no idea what's going on, so please help me.
I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 weeks now, and for the first 4 weeks everything was great. We saw each other twice a week and we texted loads everyday, but once we hit the 5th week it started getting weird...he didn't text me as much and sometimes when I reply to him, he doesn't write back. He was not like this at all before.
I texted him one night and he never replied, but he texted me the next morning and asked me why I didn't write back to him...I told him that I never got his text.
Then the next day he replied to my text 2 and a half hours later, but when I looked at the time the message was sent it said it was sent 2 and a half hours ago. I don't know if it's just my phone or if he's purposely not texting me and making up lame excuses.
Also this week we only saw each other once, as opposed to seeing each other twice a week. The reason that happened was because he never suggested meeting up...so I assumed he didn't want to.
Anyway when we did meet up, I had to ask if he wanted to do something. I went round to his house and at first I felt uncomfortable because it seemed like he was paying the tv more attention than he was paying me, and I just felt like he didn't care or what to see me anymore.
But things were ok after that awkward bit at the start. We messed around and we were lying on the sofa when he looked into my eyes and said, 'I like you...I like you a lot.' Then he went on to say that I'm cute when I sleep because I was really tired and I had my eyes closed. So that was ok. All my doubts went away.
The next day he texted me to say good morning, so I replied but he didn't reply to my next message so I don't understand what's going on??
The day after he texted me around 5pm and said, 'Sorry I didn't text you earlier. I was really busy!' I asked him what he was busy with but all he said was, 'Stuff!' and wouldn't tell me. Then I said, 'I'll assume you did something nasty then.' and he was like, 'What nasty things would I get up to??'
Anyways that went on for a bit and he didn't reply to me (surprise surprise), so I texted him later on (last night) to apologise and I still haven't heard from him.
So I'm confused...we have a great time together and I can tell he's really into me, but then when we're not together I feel non-existant. He has never not replied to my messages - this only started this week. I told my friend about it and she said that my phone is probably messed up, but it's been fine all along and I am convinced that he does receive my texts. What do you think? Any advice/help is appreciated. Thanks.
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--- Tuesday, February 1, 2005 - ok gurl
Answer by: lovegurly
what she said (kisses) IGNORE IT!~ first go get ur phone checked out to make sure it works and everything and then call him and see if u can come over and if he says no and wont tell u why go to his house and suprise him ull find out if he is cheating do it more than once too
--- Monday, January 24, 2005 - wow
Answer by: kisses
all i have to say is wow! maybe you're a little too over-dramatic. if i were you i wouldnt get too worked up on the little things like him not texting you right after you reply to him. dont make him feel as if he's gotta do things RIGHT AWAY to make you happy. if things get too serious and you have a strong gut-feeling like he's doing things behind your back, just talk to him to find out what's up-not over the phone though, wait till one of those times when you see him in person-then ask him
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