well i've been going out with my bf for 11 months and he's been doing coke and i told him i didnt like him doing it and he said he'd stop and he did for a while but then he started up again and i got mad at him and he said you dont understand its really hard to stop i said no i dont understand but i want you to stop this last week hes been really hitting those foilies hard and im really upset with him and i'm scraed that hes going to o.d. he said he does it to forget his problems and i told him doing that is not going to make your problems go away there still going to be there when you come down the other night when i was with him he was really shaky i was really scared i want to help him but i dont know how i talked to my mom and she said that his drugs are always going to come before me and so far its been true but i know he loves me why is he doing this? the other day he tricked me he told me ask your mom for money so that we can go to the movies i said ok he got the money and turned around a spent it on a ball. it really hurt me that he had done that. HHHHHHHHEEEEEELLLLPPPPP!!! what do i do i truly love him and i wanna have a family with him but i cant if hes going to be doing this when we have kids.
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--- Monday, January 31, 2005 - I dunno about this
Answer by: some_guy_542
In most cases, true love can prevail above almost all things. However, I cannot see why you love a druggie. I still agree with the other person. This guy needs some major help. Not just physical help, but also mental and spiritual help. You can start by asking him what does he want to be ; what he wants to become when he grows up as a man. As long as he is on drugs, he will never become a man or accomplish his dreams. His true inner self screams out because it is locked away by the barrier of drugs. Sooner he will have to choose between a girl's love and a drug's "love". He really needs to go to a hospital. He also needs to go to a drug rehabilitation program to help him. Sorry to tell you this, but I don't think you can change him by yourself. However, the biggest thing you can do is to tell his parents. They need to know. He needs as much support as he can. I hope this helps.
--- Saturday, January 29, 2005 - ok gurl
Answer by: lovegurly
Ok you seriously need to tell him he need to go to the hospital they can help him or else ur leaving if he says he aint gonna go then he doesnt really "LOVE" you anyway and if you dont think how much this could affect your children. i mean they would start it too...... an dknowing that hes probably gonna die be fore that anyway if u dont tell him dont wait tell him as soon as u can! HE NEEDS HELP THERE ARE MANY PLACES HE CAN GET IT! hope i helped bye!
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