hey. well i'll get to the point. i love him so much, but i think we're going to fast physically and sometimes verbally and i want to take things super slor to make things last with us cause i already noe that i might as wel marry <3him<3 but when i say i want to take things slow and we go out and hang out we just end up forgetting *because we see each other on weekends only* and like we just want to jump on each other cause temptation gets to the best of both of us and we just mess around. (nothing toooo far yet) but we get closer every time and iwant it to stop. so what can i do or say so we're not like this all the time? as much as im having fun im not that type of girl that just does all that and i dont want him to think that i am. So what can i DO or SAY so he KNOWS im not like that. im into more serious relationships especially when i noe we're just the best for each other. oh yes and how can i tell him that im not comfortable with phone sex yet..
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--- Sunday, February 6, 2005 - hmmm
Answer by: Kenshinswife
I think you should have a talk with him. It might be hard but if he truly loves you he will understand. Tell him you are not comfortable with going too far with him yet and ask him if it would be OK to wait. If he says he is not Ok with waiting then he probably isn't even worthy of being with you. I'm sure he should be ok with it though. Also in the conversation be sure to mention that you are NOT OK with phone sex and you are uncomfortable with it. Remember to talk it out the best and easiest way you know how. Anyways, I hope I was of help to you. Good Luck and God Bless. Kaoru Sango
--- Thursday, February 3, 2005 - ummm......
Answer by: missknowitall
im guessing you are going out with a guy who moves fast, ok, if your not comfortable tell him, if he is truly into you like likes you the he will understadn tryst me, and maybe you shouldn' t see him every weekend.
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