Title:
****....IS THERE STILL A CHANCE?!?!?**************
By: chris
*ok iz kinda long, sorry but i really need sum help on this cause iono wut to do..so if u can juss read it n help me out..that would be coo. thanx*
ok so i guess u can say that i'm in love wit my best frend n her n i have been real close now for bout 3 years n i cant tell her how i feel cause i know that she would freak n think of me diff. n i KNOW that if i tol her things would b aqward between her n i, n things would neva b tha same..(n i know that people would say well just tell her! but its not that eazy)..
...n its weird like sometimes i feel like she feels tha same way (iono if ne1 of u have ever juss felt it n knew it was real)..but den she confuzes me cause she act like she dont on tha outside n juss tells people that her n i are like bro' n sister but she tells me she loves me n cares for me n stuff though.
...well this past summer her n i chilled almost every day n it seemed so perfect n we had sum of the greatest times wit juss tha 2 of us alone. i mean nuthin happened, it was juss real goodtimes.
..but den skool started up again (high skool) n we both go to diff. skools, but at tha beginnin of tha year that was wen she slowly started to stop talkin to me. like she would stop callin me to see if i wanted to chill on tha weekendz..n i mean her n i would always chill 2getha on tha weekends n stuff. but i know that she b busy wit skool n frendz n stuff n i know that she dont got no bf cause she would tell me or i would find out frum sum of my frendz that go to tha same skool as her...
..n i mean i still talk to her once in a while or see her n she'll tell me she misses me alot n she loves me..but theres juss sumtin there that seems like it wasnt tha way it used to b or sumtin...
....but sumtimes i wonder that maybe she feels tha same for me deep down inside but she dont wanna say nuthin either...n i dont wanna give up on her n i....
...n so thas y i need to know if ne1 of u think that theres still a chance at this.. n i mean i love her so so much...shes the most important thing to me in tha world...i would do nethin for that gurl...ANYTHIN..shes like tha love of my life...
..so if ne1 can tell me wut i should do or ANY advice i would REALLY appreciate it cause im goin so crazy over this n it keeps buggin..so PLEEZ help me!!!PLEEZ!
Responses to this article:
--- Friday, February 18, 2005 - okay
Answer by: eskemo
okay you gotta stop saying N say and gosh okay...stay friends. even if u cant control ur "urges" cause u love her so much...just think of it as one of those fairy tales where U love a girl and u guys are friends but u never tell her, and then u help her with her other relationships and stuff and then if u stick to her as friends she'll realize how much SHE loves you but when u get older of course.......dont rush into haveing a relationship it will most likley ruin the friendship and make everything difficult if u plan on being with her when ur much older. and if u just really really like her....dont only think about what she'll think or what will happen when u tell her...ask yourself what would happen if u told her and when u do what will happen in a couple years.....and then ask yoursel what would happen if u never told her and u guys r still friends? then write those two down and see which way u like better... and plus u have ur whole life to be with her..soo dont think about RIGHT now like u dont EVER have the chance cause u do...
--- Friday, February 18, 2005 - okay
Answer by: eskemo
okay you gotta stop saying N say and gosh okay...stay friends. even if u cant control ur "urges" cause u love her so much...just think of it as one of those fairy tales where U love a girl and u guys are friends but u never tell her, and then u help her with her other relationships and stuff and then if u stick to her as friends she'll realize how much SHE loves you but when u get older of course.......dont rush into haveing a relationship it will most likley ruin the friendship and make everything difficult if u plan on being with her when ur much older. and if u just really really like her....dont only think about what she'll think or what will happen when u tell her...ask yourself what would happen if u told her and when u do what will happen in a couple years.....and then ask yoursel what would happen if u never told her and u guys r still friends? then write those two down and see which way u like better... and plus u have ur whole life to be with her..soo dont think about RIGHT now like u dont EVER have the chance cause u do...
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