Yeah, I wasn't real sure where to post this exactly. I'm technically an adult, but I'm only 19 :P.
Well, I guess I have a few problems. For starters, I'm 19 and horribly inexperienced with girls (only 1 real g/f and a virgin) and its really starting to get to me. People swear up and down that this isn't a bad thing, but I feel like such an outcast.
So, I know to get experience I have to be able to get with girls. I've been trying for the past year and a half and I've come up with nothing. I'm about to give up hope. The little confidence I had is shot. Sure, I do have things going for me: I've had a number of girls tell me I'm cute, I'm a singer in a band, I can dance, I have a great sense of humor, and I'm just all around nice guy. But, no one seems to care. Every girl I meet is either already with a guy, who's usualy built like a male model and has parents that could buy him a section of Disney land, or is the type of girl that's just looking for some muscle-bound jerk to sleep-with.
To top it all off, I have an ex that I still like and she still likes me, but she won't ever leave her current b/f for me no matter how many times they fight and come within inches of breaking up.
It's all so frustrating.
I'm just at a point now where I don't even know where to go. I feel totally helpless and worthless. I feel like I'm invisible and no one could care if I just fell off the face of the planet.
Oh, and my raging 19-year-old hormones are not helping much either...
Any advice would be greatly appreciated..
Responses to this article:
--- Saturday, March 12, 2005 - Its ok, chill, ur no outkast, just a good kid
Answer by: SillyNan
READ THE POST UNDER MINE , it is so true! when u find a girl you REALLY like they will be so glad that you are a virgin, cause you sound like one of the guys that would be w/ a virgin himself. that way it will be more special, and the longer you wait the better dating and all that other stuff will be.
--- Thursday, March 3, 2005 - hummm
Answer by: Marek
wow, ok. you know its funny; growing up an in high school all the girls wanted the rich guy, or the bad boy. Then when they get to college they change. Most ladys today want a man that can take care of them, be there when they need them and so forth. Trust me, I'm 19 also and it is heard to not have someone, mostly when all your friends are with someone. I've liked this one guy for 5 years, and i'm just now getting the hints that he likes me. (even when ppl say that he's liked me for a long time) don't panick on the whole girl thing, just wait it out a little bit. You know its funny, when your not looking or are busy with life, the world trows you a girl that likes you. that's how it always is.
An your ex, just ask her personaly if she likes you still. If she says yes then tell her that your not going to wait forever for her to make up her mind on who she wants to be with in the long run. If she can't make up her mind, just move on; it's harder just waiting around to find out if someone likes you or not. But me, it sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. She has a b/f, but says she still likes you. anyways, yeah; just don't sweat the small stuff. Let time pass and you will get a girl. :-)
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