Where to beggin with this big problem i guess i should start of by saying that i am a female and well i went out with another female in December 2002 and we were together till August of 2003 during that time we had alot of good times. Until April of 2003 i found out that she was with another guy and it really hurt me so we broke up becaue of it 2 weeks later she broke up with the guy and me and my stupid self took her back after that things were ok but no like they use to be. Then in August of 2003 she moved out of state with her parents we tried to stay together but a 2 weeks later we broke up. i was really depressed about it. and i came to realized that. being with a female was not wat i wanted. i felt sick and i couldnt belive wat i had done. my friends that knew about it told me to move on and to not let that stop me. so on september 29 2003 i got together with the guy that im with now. which i have known for about 4 years.i realize that it was no more than less than a month and i was already with someone else at 1st i looked at it as someone to fall back on. but then i started to really like him. and well i figured that i had to tell him about my past with the female so about 2 months into the relationship i told him about it and he said that he didnt care that it was part of my past and thats where its gonna stay and that it didnt bother him. i took it by surprise becasue i didnt know wat he was gonna say. After that things have been great. i cared for him and he cared for me he has been the 1st guy that has actually respected me and has been there for me. we trust each other and we tell eachother everything we have a good standing relationship. But lately i have no idea wats wrong with me because i keep thinking about my ex (the female) i have no feelings for her wat so ever or for any other chick i dont feel attracked to females wat so ever but at this time just out of no where she came into my mind and i cant keep her out of my head with no idea y shes in my head in the 1st place. i dont know wat to do i have tried to keep her out of my head and for about the past 3 or 4 months i had done so but not now. i havent told m boyfriend because how do u tell someone this. and i dont know if i should because i also dont want to loose him. I would dearly appreciate any advice please its very important i hope someone can help me. and i hope i didnt make anyone uncomfterable or anything and if i did i am truely sorry and thank you for your time. if u have any further questions please e-mail them to akact2004@yahoo.com once again thank you
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--- Friday, March 25, 2005 - I NEED SOME HELP FAST
Answer by: princess
you shouldnt really worry about it to much everybody thinks about the person that they care about or once cared for and loved,its natural.but if you feel the need to call her its not like you guys cant be friends you wont be cheating on your boyfriend.well i hope that i helped you out a little bye. and good luck
--- Thursday, March 24, 2005 -
Answer by: LiLOnE
im sorry i put out the wrong e-mail its cuz i just got it but ill get then newone soon ok
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