I am so confused and could really use some help. I have been in love with my best friend for two years. We have kinda been off and on but he can be confusing so i never knew how he really felt about me, he is shy and isn't good at saying how he really feels. But i was so crazy about him that i waited around for him, but honestly enjoyed every minute of it. Well i hear rumors start flying about him liking another girl. it hurt. cuz like a month before that i finally got him to tell me how he really feels about me. and he told me he really liked me. and things were going great. So i ignored him, and finally i got sick of waiting and 3 weeks later i hooked it up with his best friend. even though i still really liked him. his best friend does everything perfect, very gentleman like takes me out on dates and everything. just opposite of my best friend, jake. Well things are going very well with austin, but something is missing he has kissed me and everything but they excitment wasn't there. jake can smile at me and i'm on cloud nine for a week. well after i hooked up with austin, jake came out and told me that he has always had feelings for me, and he might of made a mistake, but he told me he is glad me and austin are happy. this killed me cuz i am still crazy about jake. and would take any chance i can to hang out with him. but austin is crazy about me. and i'm not even sure how jake feels about me. but i don't want anyone to think i just want what i can't have. cuz me and jake were hooked up for a summer and i loved every minute of it. but we kinda fell apart.i just feel like i am settling for austin, because i can't have jake. i could really use help on what i should do. thanks a bunch.
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--- Friday, March 25, 2005 - settlling
Answer by: princess
well it seems to me that your in the middle between a nice boy and a boy that really floates your boat,(if you understand what i mean)and you cant choose which one.well,if i was you i would stay with austin,but still be just friends with jake,because you wouldnt want to hurt austin,right.and while your with austin you might grow to like him more for who he is then for the reason that you do,and jake you might just keep him as your friend.but if jake is who you know you want then like i said still stay with austin because your not to for sure about this jake guy he can just be jealous that your with his best friend and you seem happy,and he wants to make it sound like he likes you now,again.just see how jake is acting and responding and if you feel that its not jealousy and he really likes you then go with your heart.but make sure what ever decision you make is the right one for you.i hope i helped out a little, bye!!!
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