My boyfriend and i have been "dating" for a month, and have done like No dates or ne thing. alls we do is hang out at track and school. I am ok w/ this, but I wouldn't be bad if he could actually MAKE a date, instead of cancel on me....hehehe
so then he asks if I want to make out or hold hands etc. more touchy stuff.wow. that is sudden well, haven't done that before, I'm only 15 and he is 16 and done it like 5 times (make out etc)....all different chics.
I guess also some people tease me, and i am a pretty proud "independent" girl, who doesn't take that from people. So maybe that is why my BF got the impression I don't like to do stuff. please help, how do i get rid of what people say about how they don't like my Bf, or that we don't "look like we're going out"
I like him a lot, and don't want to loose him!
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--- Thursday, April 14, 2005 - Thanks
Answer by: Disfunctionallove
Thanks. I HOPE I'm not chopped liver. lol last time i checked I wasn't...
--- Thursday, April 14, 2005 -
Answer by: sam
Well, the "people" at your school have a point... even though they are, ahem, very young. I gotta give them credit, and to you, too -- for being wise beyond your years.
He's 16. True, he's young. But he's also clueless. It's like he wants to make out with you, but not have to take you anywhere. How is that even a relationship? It's more like he wants to experiment, and you being his guinea pig! While that's normal, I don't think that's what you want, right?
Tell him that if he's your "boyfriend" and if he wants to make-out, then he'd better take you to the movies, and out to lunch. 'Cuz you're not that kind of girl!
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