I have been dating this guy for about 3 months and he thinks I'm cheating on him because I went to church and he wasn't there one of his so called friends told him I was making out with a guy at church and holding hands but the thing is his firend is a lier he has told a lot of lies about us but my boyfriend doesn't believe me.So I can hang out with any guys or talk to any guys.But he can flirt and talk to all the girls he wants to.He pushs me into things I don't want to do.He told me one day that all these othere girls look better than me.SO I don't eat muich anymore.He says If I don't do something he will break up with me so I listen to him.He bites me for no reason.When I get really mad I cut myself.He tells my friends he doesn't care about me.He won't let me hang out with one of my best friends that is a guy.I really do love him but I need some help please
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--- Thursday, May 12, 2005 -
Answer by: Buttercup 98
WAT!!! I'll i gotta say is DUMP HIM!!! he treats you so wrong! its like ur his slave, oh ma G!! he really got me mad. Girl, u dont need that guy to make you happy, hes just actually stoping you from living your life happy and finding a guy that really diserves you and makes you fell like a princess, cuz thats wat boyfriends should do! they should make u feel the best in the world. Just let him go, u diserve way better if he wants to brake up w/ u, b all like oh really? let me do the honors, its over!! u kno?
--- Sunday, May 1, 2005 - well
Answer by: missknowitall
first off , tell teh guy to stop controling you, becuase that is bad, tell him that if he gets to flirt with girls then you can flirt with guys and stop being so jealous, all i can say is that is not how a bf should act.
--- Sunday, April 24, 2005 - ...
Answer by: Lance_19
If he treats you like that, break up with him. If he can't hear both stories and talk with anybody else there, he is dense. If you can't talk sense into him, let him -cool off- and don't listen to his remarks.
Wow.. First i think you need to ask yourself why you love him, and why you went out with him in the first place, and if those reasons are still true about him then you need to ask yourself "why does he treat me this way if i still love him?" After answering these questions you need to re-prioritize. Cause' if you could go so deep in depretion to cut yourself maybe you don't care about anything anymore.. In my opinion if you truly loved him and you truly loved your friends you wouldn't cut yourself. But it seems to me that you don't care, cause if you cut yourself you could die, and i guess you don't care about the people who care about you. He bites you? Now that's something new, i haven't heard of that situation before.. wow.. You need to tell someone.. You may love him but you need to do what's right. Ask yourself "what do i really want?" Cause' in this kind of relationship you need to think about him (which you obviously have done to much) but you need to think about what's also good for you. Have you told your parents about this? You don't have to tell them that you cut yourself (cause that would lead to over protective parents problems lol) but at least tell them about how he treats you. Cause they may not know you to well, but they will know what's best for you.. If you really don't want to discuss it with your parents (i can totally understand that) then talk to your best friends.. See what they think, because you should never put your boyfriends above yourbest friends, cause it usually turns out that they know you better than the guy. Personally I think you should dump him after getting some support, go up to him with all of your firends behind you, so that he can't hurt you.. cause' he sounds dangerous.. But i can't decide for you, you need figure out what YOU really want, not what HE really wants.. I hope everything goes well, and if you ever need to talk i'm here for you, just e-mail me lanalee3663@yahoo.com Love, Kara
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