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I think she likes me, but confused! please help!!!
By: jackcartson
Here goes. At my school, I'm in the last grade and there are two other grades. I have some friends in the next highest grade. I'm in eigth, they're in seventh. Recently I got over this one girl that she didn't even know I was in love with her. She is out of the picture. Leave her out. The only person I told was one of my female friends from grade seven. She was the only of the younger friends I really was really friendly with, though I was friends with all of them. We've talked on IM and stuff. Her name is Jessica. She recently asked if I had a crush on her. I was surprised. I like her and all. I think I have a crush on her, I don't know though. I am kind of lost right now. I don't know what will happen if I say what. I don't want to hurt her feelings or anything. How should I approach this? I don't know what to tell her. I think I might, I might not, I might have mixed emotions or something. Help!!!
Responses to this article:
--- Friday, May 13, 2005 - GreenDayShe
Answer by: GreenDayShe
Oh, I do so wonder what you mean
--- Thursday, May 12, 2005 - read
Answer by: marker_blue
You must asume the obvious, and asume the unlikely. This is for those others. If there is a single person on here that replies more than others, with a similar name.... As I said, asume the obvious. ....
--- Thursday, May 12, 2005 - I can Only Agree
Answer by: DoWhatYouCan
I can only agree with GreenDayShe's most recent post. Maybe you are assuming different than what she means? Like she said, also, ask her in person. She is more likely to tell the truth and what she really feels.
Best of Luck, Femmy
--- Thursday, May 12, 2005 - Dont Assume Too Much
Answer by: GreenDayShe
Maybe you are assuming too much? I think that you should actually ASK her if she has a crush on you. In person, and not over IM. IM is too impersonal and she couldend up saying things she doesnt mean, so could you. If she says yes, or even ''maybe'' take a chance, ask her to a dance or whatever. She'll appreciate it, and it may get you more certain about your feelings.
I agree with UndecidedMinority. Maybe you arent seeing the entire thing? Whichever, though, it seems to me she is just as confused. I also know that she hasnt been in a relationship before and therefore does not know what to do. But maybe you should give it a chance, what do you have to lose? And She'll probably appreciate it. ;) ;)
Love you, honestly, Lucy
--- Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - welll
Answer by: missknowitall
think about it she may like you and this may be your opporutnity for a gf right now, think i mean come on she probably likes you so ask her why she asked then ask her if she likes you and that will so it will solve your problems. Ok, thank is all i got so later
--- Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - ---
Answer by: UndecidedMinority13
Think about it this way, maybe she doesnt like you? Maybe she is just wondering about the signs you are giving her? Maybe she, like you is confused about if she likes you or not? I am going through something of this sort with one of my friends, and I'm not sure if I like him. I really think you should give it a chance and see if anything could be between you two? Who knows, there may be something there. You'll never know if you dont try. And consider what i said in the beginning, it may be a lot of help, trust me.
Peace,
...
--- Monday, May 9, 2005 - hurm
Answer by: Angel-Cupid
well, u shud go n tell her about ur feeling...dun hide it...the more u hide it, the more the chances fly away...dun care wat will hppn after tat...take d risk if u realy like her...
--- Monday, May 9, 2005 -
Answer by: kisses
yea-if i were you, i'd just tell her the truth, nothing else-dont try to work your way around it either. Just tell her exactly how you feel-but wait until you know for sure how you feel about her. Who knows-she might have a crush on you-my guess is, if she's asking how you feel, it might make it easier for her to tell you how she feels about you. good luck-and remember-just tell her how you really feel.
--- Monday, May 9, 2005 - hey
Answer by: lanalee
Hey, how about you tell her everything you just told us.. Telling the truth is the key to a girls heart.. It will also help you understand what you really feel... Tell exactly what you told us, or send her here and tell her to look for your name... Just, don't lie to her whatever you do, cause that will hurt her feelings, she'll want to know what you really feel... Even if you don't know it yourself. Tell her whatever you think feels right. Anyways, i know this was a bit confusing, but i hope all goes well. Love Always,
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