Hi. I'm a bit new here- althought I've posted some advice for other people. But I ought to go on to the matter at hand.
I have a friend. A very good friend. He is smart, funny, nice, trustworthy and does one of the best jobs of being a friend. Yeah, I love him, honestly. But.. I dont like him. I think.
Here is where the problem comes in. He seems like a perfectly good guy to like. I'm not sure if I do like him though.
Here's the thing:
1. I dont want to get too attached to him, as he'll be graduating this year and will be leaving me (he's in 12th and me 11th)
2. He is 3 years older than me
3. He is very. . . I dont know. There are certain things that arent compatible. I wont say for thought that he would find this and perhaps take offense.
I mean, this guy is one of a make that is very rare. This one's actually sensitive, and not like so many others that i have known.
I may just want to take the chance, you know? To just see if something could happen. But I dont know. And I dont know what he wants either. From what he tells me, he's pretty confused.
What is everyone's thoughts on this? and i mean EVERYONE'S!
Thanks for the help, Peace, Blaze
Responses to this article:
--- Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - lemme type this
Answer by: marker_blue
Well. All those can be dealth with as said. The only problem is is that it might be ackward. You two are friends and you have the same friends in some classes or one class. It might get ackward or it might not. I have no idea. It could work, it might not. I'm sure he has never been in a relationship before and would not know what to do. I'm sure he'd do his best though. Hmmm....That's all I can say. Because not only am I in a bad mood, I'm in a mood where I can't type much. Mehhhhh.
--- Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - hmm.....
Answer by: marker_blue
Well. It could be he only thinks of you as a friend. Or he could like you more than that. Hmmm... It's hard to tell. Even if I knew him, there would be equal chance he would go with it, or freak. Hmm... If you ask me, age is not a great issue until later. And school wise, there are such things as phones and email and instant messeging. Also, you could end up going to his school too. Who knows. You might end up living in the same city, apartment building, I'm getting carried off. He sounds like he would understand. Sounds like a pretty good guy. As for compatabile wise, that can be dealt with. That's all I can say to help. Hope I did. Remember, this could go either way. Though sometimes it's necessary to take risks. Good luck!
--- Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - well
Answer by: Angel-Cupid
well, girl, ur situation is exactly same as wat i go thru rite now! we both got confused n one day i made my mind to tell him tat i like him...n i dun care wat happen next...
listen...no matter wat hppn, whther he reject u or he accept u[yea!] ...telling how u feel is d main thing...if he feel tat u two shud wait..then b fren..n who know wat will hppn next?!
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