Ok I'll follow kisses advice n leave the "das" behind... ok well Im single right now, I broke up w/ ma boyfriend because I was feeling that I really liked ma best friend. So i just decided to end it up so I wouldnt hurt him (I also told him the reason why and all that stuff). Yesterday he found out that the other guy that I like is my best friend!! he was suspicious about him because everybody would tell him that I was flirting w/ him, we were always together, we text, we chat, we talk... but I always told him that it wasnt like that (it turned out to be truth so he felt hurt and stupid, he thinks I did more than wat Im sayin, but no)
So now I tell my ex, (Nick)that I do like him but that I need time to think about everything, I just want to be single and live my life w/out worries. On the other side I hang around with my best friend (Cristian)I hug him, we hold hands, cuddle, we say I love you and he calls me sweet names,(that is all we do, no kisses or feeling things) I tell him that I like him, well love him and that I really want to go out w/ him but to give me time to settle Nick's problem. Oh but before I forget I kiss and hug Nick still.
Nick wants me to decide, he doesnt get what the problem is because he likes me and I like him so he asks why can we just be together again, I wouldnt say no but I also want Cristian and If I go back with Nick, Cristian would be over (plus I told him that I was going to go out with him really soon). So basicly I go from making out, hugging, and all that stuff with Nick to being on my porch, hugging, holding hands that is all, with Cristian.
Now, I feel like Im toying with their feelings and its cuz both say that they really love me, everybody tells me the same. I really dont want to play with them but I cant be with only one because they both have something I like. People are already sayin im a little hoe and Im not but Im acting like one.So I really want to stop but I cant... any advice? help? or something you think about my situation... i hope its not confusing. tnx!!
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--- Friday, May 27, 2005 -
Answer by: greenfairy
omg erm I reakon you should jus take sometime out to think how u really feel and who u want to be with... n if they truly want to be with u then they wuld wait
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