On this trip we had, I asked the girl I liked that was also on the trip out. I was quite nervous actually. She said she just wanted to be friends and not like romantic. I said okay. She did ask if I was really okay, and I kept saying yeah. Earlier that day, I had been asked if I would go out with this other girl. She was the first girls friend. It was on the tour bus and the first girl was asleep, and the people in the middle of the bus asked me. I started stuttering and didn't know what to say. I eventually told them that I had made up my mind, but they didn't ask farther then that. I was going to say yes. I don't know if they were waiting for me to say it or if they didn't want to know anymore. When the first girl said no, we were waiting in the second airport for our last plane home. As we were walking onboard, I was told by my room mate who had been told no by the second girl that I should ask her out. So, I don't know what to do. School ends in about two weeks, there's a eigth grade feild trip tomorrow. Some other stuff. But I don't know if I should ask her out, if she meant it, or what. They are so confusing! Thanks for all your help. If you want a more detailed version, click the one below this.
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--- Monday, June 6, 2005 - Hey
Answer by: GreenDayShe
Woah. o_0. I'm switching gears here, this might take a sec. OK, first, I'm proud of you for asking.. whoever the hell it was. But, yeah. If she said no, she meant it. Sorry Kevvy but you cannot keep pushing. It'll just tick her off. As for whoever wanted you to go out with her, you shouldnt say yes unless YOU mean it. Sorry, oh and by the way, I'm sure you dont scare everyone. Only when you're majorly depressed. Like now. I know I didnt help, but just remember what I said. I know it's tough. Trust me,
+Lucy+
--- Monday, June 6, 2005 - ask her a different question
Answer by: lanalee
Hey kev, another idea: I think you should just ask her if she meant it? Cause' wouldn't that be easier to talk about than actually whether she wants to go out with you (hopefully you're following me), because then you can sound sarcastic, and she can tell if she meant it or was just playing around.. Anyways, i'll seeyou at the trip tomorrow..
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