Alright, here's the story. My best friend of 6 years was my boyfriend of five months. Basically, we'd been friends for years but lovers for months. I lost my virginity to him. He is NOT your typical guy. He thinks with his mind, not his 'stuff'. Well, we broke up recently because of a few issues. Very mature, mutual break up. He still says he loves me and I love him too. BUT...the same day we broke up, he came over and we ended up having sex. Then I sorta got halfway ignored for a day and a half, then he comes over again and we mess around. He will talk to me and junk, but I feel sorta distant from him and I hate it. I know he would NEVER use me, but there is a little doubt in my mind. Does he want to be with me totally or is he still sorta going off the sex? Plz, someone give me advice!!
Thanks, REN
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--- Wednesday, June 15, 2005 -
Answer by: kisses
Next time he comes over, just talk. Make it a point NOT to have sex and/or fool around. Have a meaningful conversation about what he's feeling about this whole situation, and then maybe you can decide for yourself whether he's still completely in love with you and he still wants to be with you...or if he's just there for the sex. Good luck!
--- Wednesday, June 15, 2005 -
Answer by: kim
hey there are two ways of looking at this...one is that maybe he did love u alot and you know with love comes physical attraction and that doesnt go away so easily..maybe sex for him actually meant love and the other possibility could be that he only wanted sex....well im an optimist and id say think about the first one because he didnt force you into sex...it wasnt like u didnt want it (admit it)...but that doesnt mean you can have sex with him again...dont have sex with him again please cuz....best of luck!!!
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