Hey. I realized not to long ago that I was in love with this girl. Since were both teens, we have some restrictions. I dont know if anyone else has these, like no dating untiln college and stuff. I think she might have some feelings or something for me, but its hard to tell cause when i asked her out she basically said no, but then told me why that she couldnt. I don't think we're going to the same high schools, but i have her number. Every day thats gone by, i know its only been three days of summer now, i think about her. and i know i'll think about her every day on. thats problem one. tell me what you guys think. heres the next problem. i am a very creative and imaginative guy. I'll just stare off into space and create a world of my own and sometimes base it on others, and what they do is what i think theyd do in real life. i recently got into one of these moods and it took turns and i eventually found myself thinking a lot about anothern girl, who is a best friend of the girl i asked out. i tld myself that ill forget about it in a day or so. i find myself not forgeting about it. and when i do, i start not caring for the first girl. I am just so confused! i have all these questions and worries. i don't know what will happen during the summer or next year. i have my worries for her, the first girl. i'd die for her, but sometimes i feel.... Im just confused. i dont think i was really made for this though its said. every day only four things stick in my mind. the first girl, the second girl, the next day and what will happen over the summer, and the words 'open fire', along with war. As i said, im really confused. I met this other guy not too long ago who is in a similar situation. he was the one who actually recomended this place. he said he's got it figured out for himself. i need more help though. thanks. CASEY
Responses to this article:
--- Thursday, June 23, 2005 - thanks
Answer by: corrupted
K, thanks. I think I know what to do now. Uhh...I don't think you know me.... Unless you're name is Elizebeth....
--- Wednesday, June 22, 2005 - I Know You
Answer by: GreenDayShe
I seriously know you...Anyways, mm, you like both of them? One of them isnt allowed to date? Well which girl do you love more? Stick with her. If you cant choose, then go with the one that you feel confident likes you.
--- Wednesday, June 22, 2005 - Alright.
Answer by: corrupted
This other girl....the first girls friend... We know each other, I was in one of her classes for a semester. There wasn't really any serious action between us. Not much anyways. I think she wrote in my yearbook, but she didn't sign if she did...... Uhh.....I think that's about it. She's tall. Pretty. And if there is a moth in your room, why not open a window or something?
--- Monday, June 20, 2005 - GreenDayShe
Answer by: GreenDayShe
Of course you know me. Unless I'm wrong, then I might be scaring you a tad. Yay! =) well, yes. Call her= good. And if I dont know you, i apologize for undoubtedly scaring you. Peace, +Lucy+ PS- if I do know you, the moth is still here...
--- Monday, June 20, 2005 - ?
Answer by: corrupted
I know you? I'll try to call her though. .....my mind is blank....
--- Monday, June 20, 2005 - Hey...
Answer by: GreenDayShe
hey..I know you. I know I know you. I know you know I know you.. OK. Back on topic. Er...**reads post again**. Ok. Well, if what you said was true about her having the no dating restriction.. you really cant know for sure. I suggest you maybe..ask her if she has feelings for you? Even if you two cant date, dont you think it'd help if you just knew if she felt that way about you? That way, you can look ahead. And when she's able to date, and if she feels the same, you can feel secure in asking her out again, right? Right. If she says she doesnt. I dont suggest trying to sway her.. you've gotta wait it out. As for the second girl, I'd need more information about the standings between you two to give proper advice. I hope some of this helps. +Lucy+ Ps- call her.
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