hey does the past of a persons life really matter in a relationship with someone who u completely love??? like u know i mean if a persons made really silly small stupid mistakes in the past and knows that they might hurt the person they love...its ok to not tell right? i mean maybe if its told in bits and pieces and the mistake wasnt big in the first place and was like really really long ago...its ok not to tell??? its better to just move on right
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--- Saturday, June 25, 2005 -
Answer by: kisses
Sorry that we all misinterpreted what you were saying, you just made it sound like this "little something" is a huge deal. If it's so small, why can't you either just live without telling them, or come out and say it? You shouldn't have to come to a website to ask whether or not to tell someone a little secret, that should be for you to decide.
--- Friday, June 24, 2005 -
Answer by: kim
ok wow....u guys totslly misunderstood me...it is nothing to do with what u guys think and no it isnt anything which cud make or break a relationship at all!!!....its really small...like for example you had cyber sex like really long ago before ur relatonship even started and didnt tell ur gf/bf...u kno something really really small....
--- Thursday, June 23, 2005 - Yeah, so it just burned for like two weeks...
Answer by: fenix1230
Gee, now what tiny infinitesimal non consequential thing could we be talking about? Your little soiree with three football players before the big game? You rainbow giving abilities with the basketball team? Or that you have a rare muscular disease that inhibits your ability to keep your legs closed in the presence of really really cute guys. The mere fact that you need to come to a Web site and remain anonymous to a bunch of strangers who are bored at work, or home, or between a break of masturbation, means that your tell tale heart is letting you know you should tell. You should tell, if you have to stress over it like this, because it sounds like your terrified he might find out from someone else, and you’re afraid he’ll get upset. Whatever you did, you did, and if he can’t accept that, then he’s not the one for you. Just remember, whatever made it hard for you to pee, can be passed on to someone else, whether they know about it, or not.
--- Thursday, June 23, 2005 -
Answer by: kisses
If it's that important, than the other person should probably know. Like, if it could make or break the relationship. I don't know, if you don't tell-this could be hanging over your head, and then you might feel some guilt or something you know? I don't really know the whole situation obviously, but if you feel in your heart that this other person should know, then tell them. If you need more help feel free to email me anytime at xoxkissesxox@charter.net
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