I've been dating this guy for about 7 months now, and I'm not a real clingy girl, but until a couple of weeks ago, we'd never been apart for more than 2 days at a time. I went away for a week, and I missed him, but not too bad. Now he's gone this week and I'm almost sick missing him. It's never bothered me this bad before with other guys. I trust him, I know he's not doing anything. But, he's been gone for two days and I'm going crazy. I don't get it.
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--- Sunday, July 3, 2005 - I know what you mean
Answer by: kisses
I used to think I was that way too. I never worried about my bf and what he would do if we were apart for some time. Then towards the summer after 8th grade I started freaking out about what would happen to us over the summer. I worried about whether we'd see each other, if he'd find someone else, you know-all that. Long story short, it's not the summer after 9th grade and we're still together. Nothing has happened yet that could potentially ruin our relationship. What I'm trying to say is this: No matter how long you're apart from your boy (trust me, I know how much it hurts) whether it's 3 days or 3 months. Some how you get through it knowing that when you finally see him, that moment will be incredible. After you wait so long to see him, when you finally do see him, you forget everything that's going on around you and you're overwhelmed by feelings that are unexplainable. That's exactly how I felt after seeing my bf after 3 long months. And I'm making it through this summer as well. Try not to think about how long he's gone, but think about the time when you'll get to see him again and how great it'll be! If you ever need any more help, or you just need help getting through a rough time feel free to email me at xoxkissesxox@charter.net anytime!! Good Luck!!!
--- Wednesday, June 29, 2005 - aww
Answer by: kim
heyy...ive been there...i know that too and i know its killing but trust me it'll get you guys closer as they say distance makes the heart grow fonder or something like that...anyways its obviously natural to miss someone ur in a relationship with i mean your human and just cuz ur not ''clingy'' doesnt mean you cant miss your guy...it seems ur getting attached to him and i think thats really good...
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