I have a friend who I'll call Jack. I've only known him for about a year, but we're really close. A while ago a classmate told me she thought Jack liked me and I somehow developed a pretty bad crush on him in response. I was kind of obsessed with him for a few months. I eventually got the the courage to ask him out, but before I could I saw him with his girlfriend. Whoops. I forgot about her.
I was broken up inside for a while, but I accepted things. My crush on Jack is gone. But I'm still really obsessed with him. I really want to tell him, to try and relieve my feelings, but I don't want to wreck our friendship. What do you think I should do?
I'm sure that you know the only way to relieve your feelings is to tell Jack. Just be honest. If you both have a close friendship, it will survive. Think about it...what you'd be telling him would be very flattering to say the least. Who knows what he'll do now that he knows you like him?
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