i dont know how to make out i have a bf that i have been going out with for the past 3 months and hes trying to get me to make out with him but i dont know how i want to learn reali bad and im scared that when if i try ill be bad and that it will effect our relationship PLEZZZ HELP
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--- Wednesday, July 20, 2005 -
Answer by: kisses
I don't think you can really learn how to make out, just do what comes naturally. And if he really loves/likes you, it shouldn't matter if you dont know how or aren't good at making out the first time. Good Luck
--- Sunday, July 17, 2005 - well
Answer by: eskemo
This is obvious but im guessing your pretty young right? But that's okay! A majority of kids can't and i think it's obvious that a first make-out shouldnt be the way it is with you. It's okay i was stupider than you,im just saying. Ya anyhow after reading a ton of cosmo (which by the way sucks) First thing i'll have to say is that they're so right yet i still hate cosmogirl and the 50 issues i have in my basket, but that's not the point. There is no wrong way to make-out, it's like someone telling you to close your eyes and open your mouth, and yet you wont know what nasty surprise your going to get,haha. No no thats a bad example. It's as simple as just getting the first nerve to kiss the boy (on the lips preferably) and then you hop on each other like wild geese, just kidding haha gotcha. No well my first tip is not to do it around many people it's nerve wracking and you don't pay attention to what's actually about to go on in your mouth which is gross...I think you jsut shouldn't do it at all. And it wont effect your relationship because it probably isnt an actual relationship anyway, just like mine when i was younger (this is sad). Okay here's what you want want: Simple kiss close your eyes open up for a big surprise Not to wide not so wet...why am i making this into a poem hahahaha beats me. Oh yah so you kiss then you keep kissing until you think you can land the boat in the harbor. Which in my words means until you think it's safe enough to french the boy (which is gross i sugest you dont do it).But you know what??? dont worry about it you should let the guy do all of that unless your comfortable with it. yYou practically follow his lead, it sounds complicated but its exactly what i said. I bet you dont get this, remember have fun and boys aren't worth it.
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